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Staff quality and training can make or break an event for guests with disabilities. A poor interaction leaves people feeling unseen, unheard, or disrespected. Train staff appropriately on disability etiquette and how to handle assistance requests.

Scoping questions

This guideline applies if you answer yes to:
  • Does your event have any staff — volunteers, employees, or outsourced workers — who will interact with attendees?

Implementation guidelines

Event-specific practices

Hiring and training
  • Where possible, hire staff with experience working with the disability community.
  • Before your event, train all front-of-house staff and speakers on disability etiquette.
Event interactions
  • Brief staff on the interactions they may have at their assigned station and the strategies and features they’ll use to keep the experience inclusive.
  • For stations with accessible equipment or features, ensure staff know how to use that equipment, activate features, and identify situations where they’re relevant.
  • Give staff information on how guests with disabilities can leave feedback about the event.

Disability etiquette — general

  • Person-first (“a person with a visual disability”) or identity-first (“a visually disabled person”) language is a personal choice. Always use the language a person prefers. When you don’t yet know, default to person-first.
    Some communities tend to prefer identity-first language. Many Deaf people prefer “Deaf person” and the same is true for parts of the Autism community. When possible, don’t assume — ask.
  • Never assume or take over. Ask permission before helping, touching mobility aids, or providing support. Respect independence and personal space.
  • Treat people with disabilities as equals. Avoid patronizing tones or pity. Acknowledge strengths and achievements.
  • Respect personal boundaries — don’t touch or lean on wheelchairs, canes, or service animals without explicit permission.
  • Be open and flexible. Everyone has unique needs.
  • Use respectful terminology. When in doubt, ask how someone prefers to be referred to.
  • Include people with disabilities in conversations, activities, and decisions.
  • Focus on the person’s abilities, interests, and experiences — not their disability.
  • Show genuine interest and respect for their thoughts and opinions.
  • Ask if someone needs assistance; respect their answer, and be creative when help is welcomed.

Physical disabilities

  • Respect the personal space of wheelchair users and people with fine motor disabilities. Don’t lean on their chair or touch their devices without permission.
  • When speaking with someone in a wheelchair, position yourself at their eye level.
  • Allow extra time for tasks. Don’t rush.
  • Be aware of any assistive technology or devices being used and respect them — they’re essential to independence.

Vision disabilities

  • Introduce yourself and others when approaching. Use verbal cues to indicate presence and position.
  • Politely ask if help is needed. Respect declines. If accepted, offer a guiding arm or ask how they prefer to be guided.
  • Use descriptive language for directions and layout — landmarks, distances, obstacles.
  • Verbally describe visual elements: aids, charts, displays.
  • Guide dogs are working — don’t distract or pet without permission. Speak to the person, not the dog.
  • Use clock positions for directions (“the door is at 12 o’clock”).
  • Warn about obstacles like steps or low-hanging objects, and offer help navigating.
  • Provide detailed descriptions of people, objects, and actions happening around a blind guest.
  • Don’t move personal belongings or mobility aids without permission.

Hearing disabilities

  • Get the person’s attention before speaking — a wave to establish eye contact works well.
  • Face them directly with clear lighting on your face. If a sign-language interpreter is present, address the person, not the interpreter.
  • Speak clearly at a natural pace. Don’t over-enunciate, exaggerate, or shout — it distorts lip movements.
  • Use facial expressions, gestures, and body language as visual cues — without overdoing it.
  • Ensure lighting favors lip-reading. Avoid backlighting your face.
  • Use written notes, diagrams, or other visual aids to supplement speech.
  • Be patient. Allow time to process and respond. Don’t interrupt or finish sentences.
  • Ask about preferred communication mode — lip-reading, sign language, hearing aids, or cochlear implants — and adapt.
  • If either of you is unsure of understanding, ask for clarification and find methods that work for both.

Speech disabilities

  • Be patient and give full attention. Let them express themselves without interruption.
  • Maintain eye contact.
  • Use nonverbal cues — nodding, smiling — to show you’re following.
  • Let them finish their own sentences.
  • Ask open-ended clarifying questions when you don’t understand.
  • Be open to alternative communication methods like augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices, sign language, or written notes.
  • Don’t make cognitive assumptions based on speech.
  • Communicate at their pace. Focus on the message, not the articulation.

Cognitive disabilities

  • Be patient and give full attention. Let them express themselves without interruption.
  • Maintain eye contact.
  • Use nonverbal cues — nodding, smiling — to show you’re following.
  • Ask open-ended clarifying questions when you don’t understand.
  • Be open to alternative communication methods like AAC devices, sign language, or written notes.
  • Don’t make cognitive assumptions based on how someone communicates.
  • Communicate at their pace. Don’t interrupt, overcorrect, or complete sentences.

Resources and tools

Last modified on August 4, 2026